Title: Somewhere Sisters: A Story of Adoption, Identity, and the Meaning of Family
Author: Erika Hayasaki
Genre: Nonfiction
Published On: October 11, 2022
Publisher: Algonquin Books
Source: digital (Netgalley)
Pages: 317
Synopsis:
Identical twins Isabella and Hà were born in Vietnam and raised on opposite sides of the world, each knowing little about the other’s existence, until they were reunited as teenagers, against all odds.
The twins were born in Nha Trang, Vietnam, in 1998, where their mother struggled to care for them. Hà was taken in by their biological aunt, and grew up in a rural village, going to school, and playing outside with the neighbors. They had sporadic electricity and frequent monsoons. Hà’s twin sister, Loan, spent time in an orphanage before a wealthy, white American family adopted her and renamed her Isabella. Isabella grew up in the suburbs of Chicago, with a nonbiological sister, Olivia, also adopted from Vietnam. Isabella and Olivia attended a predominantly white Catholic school, played soccer, and prepared for college.
But when Isabella’s adoptive mother learned of Isabella’s biological twin back in Vietnam, all of their lives changed forever. Award-winning journalist Erika Hayasaki spent years and hundreds of hours interviewing each of the birth and adoptive family members and tells the girls’ incredible story from their perspectives, challenging conceptions about adoption and what it means to give a child a good life. Hayasaki contextualizes the sisters’ experiences with the fascinating and often sinister history of twin studies, the nature versus nurture debate, and intercountry and transracial adoption, as well as the latest scholarship and conversation surrounding adoption today, especially among adoptees.
For readers of All You Can Ever Know and American Baby, Somewhere Sisters is a richly textured, moving story of sisterhood and coming-of-age, told through the remarkable lives of young women who have redefined the meaning of family for themselves.
My thoughts
Erika Hayasaki has successfully written Somewhere Sisters as a heartrending personal story about two twin sisters from Vietnam separated at birth, while also shining a light on the complicated and often corrupt business of adoption. She gives a voice to adoptees, examining intercountry and transracial adoption, asking the hard questions that deserve to be acknowledged. I found myself reading this one quickly, not wanting to set it aside, intrigued and enlightened.
We meet Isabella and Hà as infants born in Vietnam in 1998 to a single mother struggling to care for her two children. As her babies become sicker from malnutrition, someone points her in the direction of an orphanage. The orphanage agrees to take Isabella, the healthier of the two, but declares Hà too sickly to accept. The girls’ mother makes the hard decision to leave Isabella at the orphanage and ultimately leaves Hà with a sister in a nearby village. While Isabella is eventually adopted by a wealthy American family and given the name Isabella, Hà is raised by her aunt and her aunt’s partner in the village. Isabella is adopted along with Olivia, a younger girl at the same orphanage who is not related to Isabella but whom Isabella had become close with, the adoptive family agreeing with the suggestion to keep them together.
When Isabella’s adoptive mother eventually learns Isabella has a twin sister, she is determined to reunite the sisters, starting a chain events that will alter not only the sisters’ lives, but the lives of many others touched by their story, as well.
In this book the reader is given a look at three different adoption stories within one family: Isabella adopted by an American family, growing up amid a wealthy and predominately white neighborhood, is often subjected to racism and bullying, while Olivia is accepted more easily by her school peers. Hà, living in Vietnam, is also bullied for having two moms and being poor. All three girls have complicated feelings about having relationships with their birth relatives, pushed by their parents in varying directions at young ages, ultimately finding some semblance of peace about their own stories.
While it’s easy to only think about the positives of adoption, many times adoptive parents and birth parents are not given the full story. Hayasaki emphasizes the point in Somewhere Sisters that maybe the focus should be more on what’s best for the adoptees than on the adopting or birth parents. Methodically researched, Somewhere Sisters gives the reader plenty to think about, and I most appreciated getting adoptees’ view on their own experiences through adoption. I highly recommend this heartbreaking and illuminative read!
(All quotes are taken from an advance reader’s copy and are subject to change in the final print.)
Thank you to Algonquin Books and Netgalley for providing me with an advance copy.
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Have you read Somewhere Sisters? Did you add it to your tbr? Let me know in the comments!
I am interested in reading this one at some point, so I’m glad you found it to be a good read.
I hope you get to pick it up! Very enlightening.
I’ve been very interesting in reading this book. Now even more so.
I would love to hear what you think if you get to pick it up!
I was tempted to sign up for this tour but I wasn’t sure I’d be in the right mood so I held back. This does sound like a great read though and your review has definitely piqued my interest enough to want to check it out at some point. Great review!
I was very hesitant, too. I really didn’t have time to spare, and I was also afraid it would be too sad. I think the fact that it’s so well researched helped to balance out the emotional and informational aspects of the book. I also read it quickly, which helped, too. 🙂 I hope you get to give a try at some point, Dini!