Title: Slow Dance
Author: Rainbow Rowell
Genre: Adult Fiction
Published On: July 30, 2024
Publisher: William Morrow
Source: digital (Netgalley)
Pages: 496
Synopsis:
A REESE’S BOOK CLUB PICK!
Back in high school, everybody thought Shiloh and Cary would end up together . . . everybody but Shiloh and Cary.
They were just friends. Best friends. Allies. They spent entire summers sitting on Shilohβs porch steps, dreaming about the future. They were both going to get out of north OmahaβShiloh would go to college and become an actress, and Cary would join the Navy. They promised each other that their friendship would never change.
Well, Shiloh did go to college, and Cary did join the Navy. And yet, somehow, everything changed.
Now Shilohβs thirty-three, and itβs been fourteen years since she talked to Cary. Sheβs been married and divorced. She has two kids. And sheβs back living in the same house she grew up in. Her life is nothing like she planned.
When sheβs invited to an old friendβs wedding, all Shiloh can think about is whether Cary will be thereβand whether she hopes he will be. Would Cary even want to talk to her? After everything?
The answer is yes. And yes. And yes.
Slow Dance is the story of two kids who fell in love before they knew enough about love to recognize it. Two friends who lost everything. Two adults who just feel lost.
Itβs the story of Shiloh and Cary, who everyone thought would end up together, trying to find their way back to the start.
My thoughts
(Spoiler free)
Slow Dance by Rainbow Rowell is a step back into the past, a nostalgic visit, especially for those of us who lived it. And especially if you were a teen in the 90s or a young adult in the early 2000s. The music, the clothes, the pre-smartphone days. I couldnβt decide if I wanted to devour this book or read it slowly, savoring each page. I did a little of both.
She imagined herself holding him at every moment she’d known him, like a pearl-ended pin stuck through time and space.
Reading Slow Dance reminded me how good Rowell is at creating complicated humans, how she excels at telling a story, and how realistic her characters become. If you were a fan of Attachments, you should enjoy this one, too.
I have seen some mixed reviews for this one and thatβs probably because itβs being promoted as a Romance with a capital βRβ, but itβs more about two best friends who have lost touch trying to heal from lifeβs traumas while also finding their way back to one another. Their lives are messy and lonely, it takes time to heal, and Rowell warns you in the title: itβs a slow dance to the end. Settle in and enjoy the waltz.
I saw some reviewers who said they couldnβt stand the miscommunicationβAND it is my least favorite tropeβbut I never even registered this one as containing miscommunication. For me, it was more that they were young, unable to understand what they were feeling in the past, and scared to admit it in the present. They couldnβt discuss feelings they didnβt understand yet. It took time for them to process and accept. I relished the angst and slow-burn of it all.
Shiloh had wanted Cary before she knew what that meant—and now it was too late for her to ever truly have him.
Rowell is a blunt writer, which I know not everyone appreciates, but I prefer her less descriptive style. Every word is chosen carefully and means something. Some chapters are short and some are longer, but itβs always enough to give the reader what they need. The chapters also alternated between the past and present but not in a specific order, just as the story unfolded. And itβs told in third person, mostly from Shilohβs point of view with a few chapters from Caryβs point of view, as well.
Slow Dance is a quiet book that gave me big feelings. Nostalgic. Romantic. Humorous. Healing. Itβs real life, which I found hopeful and refreshing.
I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own. Thank you to William Morrow and Netgalley for providing me with an advance copy.
(All quotes are taken from the advance copy and are subject to change in final print.)
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A Song For A Book
Many songs are mentioned throughout Slow Dance and I was happy to see Reese’s Book Club (which chose the book for August) had an inspired playlist on Spotify (included below) featuring many of the songs mentioned in the book, as well as some that weren’t. I’ve chosen to highlight “Babe” by Styx. Not only is it mentioned in the book, this song is also a special song for me and my babe. π
Babe I’m leaving
I must be on my way
The time is drawing near
My train is going
I see it in your eyes
The love beneath your tears
But I’ll be lonely without you
And I’ll need your love to see me through
So please believe me
My heart is in your hands
And I’ll be missing you
‘Cause you know it’s you, Babe
Whenever I get weary
And I’ve had enough
Feel like giving up
You know it’s you, Babe
Giving me the courage
And the strength I need
Please believe that it’s true
Babe, I love you…
Have you read Slow Dance? Did you add it to your tbr? Let me know in the comments!
Ahh! I didn’t realize Rowell had a new book out. I’m so glad you posted this, I’ll definitely have to get my hands on a copy!
I’ve only heard good things about this one. It’s one I’m looking forward to reading!
I agree with you. I didn’t clock this as miscommunication either, and I think you are right about them being young and afraid to put themselves out there.